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Jingle Blues: Unpacking the Factors Behind Holiday Mental Health Decline
While Christmas and the holiday season is often associated with joy, celebration, and togetherness, it can also be a challenging time for many individuals who struggle with mental health conditions. In this article I’d like to outline several factors that contribute to the difficulties that many may face during the holiday season, regardless of your mental health!
Increased Expectations:
Societal pressures to participate in joyful celebrations can lead to heightened expectations. The pressure to meet these expectations often contribute to stress, anxiety and sometimes inadequacy.
Financial Stress:
The expectations of gift-giving and festivities often cause financial strain on families, especially parents. Families often over extend their credit to make sure their children have “the best of the holiday season”. Financial stress can be a significant source of anxiety and stress and often impacts overall mental well-being.
Family Dynamics:
Unlike Hallmark movies, spending time with family is not always joyful and can be challenging due to strained relationships, unresolved conflicts or the absence of loved ones. Family gatherings can bring up many emotions such as sadness, worry, frustration and even anger.
Isolation and Loneliness:
Not everyone has a supportive circle , friends or close family to spend the holidays with. This can bring on feelings of isolation and loneliness and can exacerbate feelings of solitude.
Grief and Loss:
For individuals who have experienced loss of a loved one, a job, a relationship, or even a pet, the holidays can be a reminder of their absence and increase sadness or repeating the grieving process.Coping with grief during a time that emphasizes family and connection can be particularly challenging.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD):
Some people experience a form of depression known as Seasonal Affective Disorder during the winter months when there is less natural sunlight. The combination of reduced sunlight, colder weather, and holiday-related stressors can contribute to mental health challenges.
Social Comparison:
Social media has been known to increase stress during the holiday season in comparison to others as a way of considering the “norm” in the way each celebrates the season. This often leads to feelings of inadequacy, dissatisfaction and more.
Overcommitment and Burnout:
The holiday season often involves a flurry of activities, parties, and responsibilities. We often want to be “people pleasers” and overcommit to these extra festivities during the holiday season. Overcommitment can lead to burnout, exhaustion, and a negative impact on our mental health.
Unrealistic Ideals:
Media platforms can create unrealistic ideals such as the “perfect holiday” or “connection with family and friends” and much more.
Families or individuals may feel pressure to achieve or attain an unrealistic sense of perfection in the season that often leads to disappointment, stress and mental health decline.
What’s most important is to recognize that everyone experiences the holiday season and traditions differently and what may appear as a joyful time for some may be a challenging time for others. For those that may be impacted more by the social pressure or expectations of the holiday season I recommend you focus on:
Practicing self-care
Set realistic goals and expectations
Reach out and seek support when needed
Prioritize your mental wellness
If you are struggling with some of these elements during the holiday season, first know that you are not alone and that there is help and support available. Make the holiday season work for you and for your mental health. Media and commercialization can add unwanted stress or expectations. I highly encourage you to make the holidays based on your values and what you ultimately can manage or handle wherever you are in your mental health. If you are overwhelmed, finding it hard to keep up or even not feeling the holiday “joy”, please reach out to your local therapists or support systems and put your mental health first.
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Harmonizing with Hope: How the Magic of Music Can Alleviate Fall Depression
Fall is one of the most beautiful seasons of the year, with its colorful leaves, crisp air and recreating many fall family favorite food recipes. I know mine is anything pumpkin! However, for many people, it is also a time of increased sadness, anxiety, and depression. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) affects around 5% of the American population, with symptoms ranging from low mood to fatigue, irritability, and sleep problems. According to the American Psychiatric Association, “SAD typically lasts about 40% of the year and is more common among women than men.”
If you are feeling down during the fall season, one of the simplest and most effective ways to boost your mood is to listen to or play music. In this blog post, we will explore how music can help alleviate fall depression and provide tips on how to create the perfect fall playlist.
Music boosts your mood and releases endorphins
Listening to music has been linked to the release of endorphins and natural chemicals that trigger a positive feeling in the body. This is why music has such a powerful effect on our mood and emotions. By listening to uplifting and upbeat music, you can stimulate your brain to release endorphins, which can help counteract feelings of sadness, anxiety, stress and more. Playing an instrument can also have the same effect but you do not need to be a musician to benefit from its positive effects.
Music can reduce stress and anxiety
Music therapy has been shown to be an effective treatment for depression and anxiety. Studies have found that listening to calming music can help reduce stress hormone levels in the body, such as cortisol, which can contribute to feelings of anxiety, tension and stress. Creating a playlist of relaxing music on your iPhone or smart devices can help your body and mind to unwind and relax, reducing stress and anxiety levels. For more information on how music can help boost your mental health check out this article from the JED Foundation. Click Here for article
Music can evoke nostalgia and positive memories
Music has a powerful association with memories, and certain songs or genres can evoke positive memories and emotions. By listening to music that reminds you of happy times in your life, you can boost your mood and increase feelings of joy and happiness. From childhood classics to favorite college tunes, there is a wide range of music that can evoke a sense of nostalgia and positivity. I know when I listen to the Muppets theme song it immediately brings a smile to my face.
Music can improve your sleep quality
Sleep problems are a common symptom of depression and anxiety, and poor quality sleep can exacerbate these symptoms. Listening to calming music before bed has been shown to improve sleep quality and reduce sleeping problems such as insomnia. According to the Sleep Foundation, “Music has been shown to decrease levels of a stress hormone called cortisol. Music triggers the release of dopamine, which can boost good feelings at bedtime and may help manage pain”. To help your body and mind unwind before bed and to improve your sleep quality, pre-select some relaxing sounds or songs that you can put on a playlist and play while you start to settle in. Don’t forget to put your earbuds in as your calming music may be a distraction to your sleeping partner. Not everyone responds to music in the same way.
Music can provide a sense of connection and community
Music has the power to bring people together and create a sense of connection and community. By attending concerts, listening to live music, or even joining a choir, you can create a space where you feel connected to others through the shared experience of music. This social support can be an invaluable tool for combating feelings of loneliness and isolation, which are common in fall depression. If you are unable to find a community music group you can start to create musical moments with your family by creating a family dance party playlist, which is always fun and entertaining.
Music is an underrated but powerful tool for combating depression and improving mood and emotions for those struggling with mental health conditions and especially during the fall season changes. By creating a playlist of uplifting, calming, and nostalgic music, you can provide yourself with a simple but effective way to boost your mood, reduce stress and anxiety, improve your sleep quality, and create a sense of connection with others. So go ahead, create your ultimate fall playlist, and see how music can improve your mental health and wellbeing this season. Or if you are a musician, get out your guitar, sit at the piano and get a pot/spoon from the kitchen to create some rhythm and create a family band and rock it out through the changes of the fall.
Did we miss anything out? Let us know how music helps you get through the possible challenges of the Fall season. Also, we’d love to know some of your favorite calm songs that we can collect to create a playlist together.
For more information contact:
John Mews, LMFT, MT
CEO & Founder - Mewsic Moves
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Music Therapist
Email: john@mewsicmoves.com
Phone: (818) 877-6797
Web: www.mewsicmoves.com