Jingle Blues: Unpacking the Factors Behind Holiday Mental Health Decline
While Christmas and the holiday season is often associated with joy, celebration, and togetherness, it can also be a challenging time for many individuals who struggle with mental health conditions. In this article I’d like to outline several factors that contribute to the difficulties that many may face during the holiday season, regardless of your mental health!
Increased Expectations:
Societal pressures to participate in joyful celebrations can lead to heightened expectations. The pressure to meet these expectations often contribute to stress, anxiety and sometimes inadequacy.
Financial Stress:
The expectations of gift-giving and festivities often cause financial strain on families, especially parents. Families often over extend their credit to make sure their children have “the best of the holiday season”. Financial stress can be a significant source of anxiety and stress and often impacts overall mental well-being.
Family Dynamics:
Unlike Hallmark movies, spending time with family is not always joyful and can be challenging due to strained relationships, unresolved conflicts or the absence of loved ones. Family gatherings can bring up many emotions such as sadness, worry, frustration and even anger.
Isolation and Loneliness:
Not everyone has a supportive circle , friends or close family to spend the holidays with. This can bring on feelings of isolation and loneliness and can exacerbate feelings of solitude.
Grief and Loss:
For individuals who have experienced loss of a loved one, a job, a relationship, or even a pet, the holidays can be a reminder of their absence and increase sadness or repeating the grieving process.Coping with grief during a time that emphasizes family and connection can be particularly challenging.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD):
Some people experience a form of depression known as Seasonal Affective Disorder during the winter months when there is less natural sunlight. The combination of reduced sunlight, colder weather, and holiday-related stressors can contribute to mental health challenges.
Social Comparison:
Social media has been known to increase stress during the holiday season in comparison to others as a way of considering the “norm” in the way each celebrates the season. This often leads to feelings of inadequacy, dissatisfaction and more.
Overcommitment and Burnout:
The holiday season often involves a flurry of activities, parties, and responsibilities. We often want to be “people pleasers” and overcommit to these extra festivities during the holiday season. Overcommitment can lead to burnout, exhaustion, and a negative impact on our mental health.
Unrealistic Ideals:
Media platforms can create unrealistic ideals such as the “perfect holiday” or “connection with family and friends” and much more.
Families or individuals may feel pressure to achieve or attain an unrealistic sense of perfection in the season that often leads to disappointment, stress and mental health decline.
What’s most important is to recognize that everyone experiences the holiday season and traditions differently and what may appear as a joyful time for some may be a challenging time for others. For those that may be impacted more by the social pressure or expectations of the holiday season I recommend you focus on:
Practicing self-care
Set realistic goals and expectations
Reach out and seek support when needed
Prioritize your mental wellness
If you are struggling with some of these elements during the holiday season, first know that you are not alone and that there is help and support available. Make the holiday season work for you and for your mental health. Media and commercialization can add unwanted stress or expectations. I highly encourage you to make the holidays based on your values and what you ultimately can manage or handle wherever you are in your mental health. If you are overwhelmed, finding it hard to keep up or even not feeling the holiday “joy”, please reach out to your local therapists or support systems and put your mental health first.
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